It's nice to see some blue sky today. It's been a tough week at work and I'm thankful I'm off today. On Tuesday I spent three hours scrubbed in, wearing lead, assisting one of our rads to put a port in a patient's arm. We had one port, no spares, no mistakes. The second port that was ordered didn't show up in time. Thanks Bard.
So of course a mistake was made but the rad I was working with fixed it. Three hours is a long time to spend wearing a lead apron though. It was exhausting but satisfying.
Tuesday morning before I scrubbed in for the arm port, a patient's husband ripped me a new one over the phone. The sad part is, I didn't disagree with him. He was right. We had screwed up everything and nothing had gone as planned for his wife's biopsy. His wife is on a blood thinner and we couldn't get her INR down. It's technical I know but that part wasn't our fault. All of the stuff we did trying to make arrangements for the biopsy were fucked up. After hours of work, many phone calls, lots of running around from department to department for advice and supplies, we finally got the biopsy done yesterday. I was with the lady off and on for ten hours yesterday. A lovely lady who seems to know that she is already dying. I was thankful we were able to get the biopsy done but to be honest, in the long run, the biopsy results aren't really going to make much of a difference. Her cancer has already spread to her bones. So exhausting but not really satisfying. I did apologize to the lady for all the delays in getting her biopsy done and she accepted my apology with dignity.
Then on the way home there was a broken water main which seems to happen when it's cold and dark. Took us forever to get home but we made it.
It's January. Nothing good ever seems to happen in January. It's cold and dark, although the sun has managed to drag it's ass over the horizon and is shining through the windows now.
Time to climb on my exercise bike and exorcise my demons. I'm watching The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel and I love it. It know it's not real but watching strong, brave young women give me strength as well. I suppose I was stronger than I realize when I was young. I wouldn't marry my boyfriend when I found out I was pregnant, even though everyone wanted me to. I put myself through nursing school. I moved to a new city after graduating, even though I was terrified. I found love at the ripe old age of forty-nine, a love that accepts me as I am. I am enough for the big guy and that still fills me with wonder.